You’re Sexy, And You Know It … ?

What You’ll Learn

• How you can download your FREE sexy checklist handbook. 

• Sexiness is being authentically yourself, and we give you five characteristics of a sexy person.

• Answer ten of the “Are You Sexy Quiz” questions. Did you pass the sexiness test?

What Does Sexy Mean?

We think of sexy as someone who looks good on the outside. But all the research points to sexiness coming from the inside. Meaning that the sexiest women are the most confident women.

Confidence means feeling sure of yourself and capable of your abilities in a realistic, secure way.

It might seem corny or an overused trope, but sexiness is being yourself. The closer you become your most authentic self, the more self-worth, self-esteem, and confidence you will naturally have. And that internal power is intoxicating to others.

Reality check: Anyone—including you—can be sexy because it has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with being yourself.

How can you tap into your sexual confidence? Here are five characteristics of a sexy person.

(1) You’re Comfortable In Your Skin

For decades, psychologists have known that believing you are attractive increases your desirability by others regardless of your physical appearance. Research shows it’s hard for us to judge someone’s value, so we use their self-confidence–or lack of it–to gauge their value. 

Sexiness is your confidence.

(2) You Know How To Make Other People Feel Good

Someone who can make us feel good lights up the reward pathways in our brains and motivates us to share more of ourselves. Charming people are charming because they are very interested in you.

Sexiness is being interested and interesting.

(3) You Know Your Worth

People who know their worth, set boundaries, and are selective about who they give their time and attention to are naturally less available than those with low self-esteem.

Sexiness is your sexual self-esteem.

(4) You Are Fun To Be Around

Studies found that people who are fun and have a great sense of humor are more successful romantically. We are drawn to someone who is good at communication and conflict resolution. Research proves that a more agreeable partner helps us cope better with difficult life circumstances and has higher levels of relationship satisfaction.

Sexiness is not taking yourself so seriously.

(5) You Are A Beautiful Mess

Researchers found vulnerability can be alluring, naming this “the beautiful mess” effect. Vulnerability is humanizing because we love seeing raw truth and openness in others. 

Sexiness is showing everyone your imperfections.

These five suggestions are helpful but big ideas. How can you start being sexy today? An excellent place to start is by going through the following sexy checklist. 

Are You Sexy Checklist?

Answer the following questions with a yes or no. Then, pick one thing you would like to work on.

1. I get out and socialize with friends regularly.

2. I have a hobby that interests me and is separate from my home and work life.

3. I laugh at least once per day.

4. I say something nice to myself every day.

5. I mostly look at what is going right in my life.

6. I don’t sweat the small stuff.

7. I am neither a guilt thrower nor a guilt catcher

8. I exercise, eat healthy foods, and drink tons of water.

9. I have at least one gorgeous set of underwear (that fits!)

10. If yes to #9, I wear this gorgeous set of underwear at least every couple of months.

11. When someone compliments me, I look them straight in the eye and say, “Thank You. I feel great!”

What is your biggest takeaway from this quiz? Hopefully, it's that although many traits contribute to your sexiness, they all stem from being yourself.

How can you use that takeaway to lean into being the most authentic version of yourself?

Grab Your FREE Sexy Checklist Quiz

You can take the entire Sexy Checklist quiz here. It's great to do the checklist yourself, and it's even better with friends. Imagine what fun you can have: a night out with your friends, a few margaritas, and answering the questions. It's like you're answering a Cosmo quiz in high school.

Wrap Up

• You’re comfortable in your skin.

• You know how to make other people feel good.

• You know your worth.

• You have a great time.

• You dare to be vulnerable.

Your sexiness shines when you are entirely, unapologetically yourself.

When You Don’t Think You Can … Remember

We are all rooting for your sex’cess. Because when you sex’ceed, you are raising women’s sexuality to a new, higher standard. That makes you a badass human being.

When You're Ready To Step Into Your Sex'cess

1. Get your FREE copy of Sex Boot Camp Masterclass. Go here.

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3. Listen and subscribe to the weekly Sensational Sex Podcast. Go here.

4. Join the Sex'cess Community to hang with like minded, groovy women. Go here.

5. Check out the award winning fiction, The Sex Course that went to #1 in its Amazon category three days after launch. Go here.