2024 American Book Fest Award Finalist
The five-step workbook that shifts your sexual mindset — and changes everything that comes after.
You. Me. Bed. NOW! isn’t about tricks, toys, or tantric gymnastics. It’s about sexual power — the kind that starts in your head and ends with you confidently asking for what you want … and leaning into the pleasure you asked for.
Inside this award-winning workbook is a deceptively simple five-step program that will shift how you think about sex, talk about sex, and experience sex.
You’ll discover:
Why you’re really having sex (hint: it might surprise you)
The invisible blocks sabotaging your pleasure
What you truly want — beyond obligation, performance, or routine
A ridiculously easy way to ask for the sex you crave
How to receive pleasure without guilt, pressure, or overthinking
Most books about sex focus on tips, tools or techniques, when the real question is how you're thinking.
You. Me. Bed. Now! shows you how your relationship with sex — your mindset, your beliefs, the quiet thoughts you have before, during, and after — and how shifting that changes everything else.
As Dr. Trina puts it:
The You. Me. Be. NOW! workbook is for the woman who is ready to stop going through the motions and start feeling it. She wants sex to to nourishes her, rather than something that takes from her.
You. Me. Bed. Now! is written specifically for heterosexual, cis-women in long-term monogamous relationships who are ready to own their sexual happiness.
Did you know? Studies show that women who read sex books experience better sex. You're almost there!
Dr. Trina's five-step framework is deceptively simple. Each step builds on the last, and by the time you reach Step Five, you'll wonder why nobody handed you this workbook sooner.
Step One: Why Do You Have Sex?
Step Two: What Stops You?
Step Three: Stop Faking It
Step Four: What Do YOU Want From Sex?
Step Five: Make It Happen
Dr. Trina Read has spent over two decades as a sexologist working with real women in real relationships navigating real sexual roadblocks. She has seen the same pattern over and over: women who want a better sex life but don't believe they deserve one, or don't know where to start.
You. Me. Bed. Now! is her answer to both.
It's the distilled wisdom of twenty-plus years of work, packed into a deceptively simple five-step workbook that meets you exactly where you are — and walks you, step by step, to where you want to be.
It won the 2024 American Book Fest Award because it works. Not because it promises a quick fix, but because it offers something rarer and more powerful: a lasting shift.
You. Me. Bed. Now! is available on Amazon, Kobo, Apple Books, and Smashwords.
It's a workbook — which means it's designed to be written in, returned to, and worked through at your own pace. You'll get the most out of it by actually doing the exercises, not just reading through them.
Not at all. You. Me. Bed. Now! stands completely on its own. That said, many readers find the two complement each other beautifully — the fiction of The Sex Course and the practical tools of this workbook create a powerful combination.
Yes — Dr. Trina is transparent about this. You. Me. Bed. Now! is written specifically for heterosexual, cis-women in long-term monogamous relationships. Dr. Trina believes in staying in her lane so she can give the best, most focused guidance possible.
You're ready. The fact that you're here reading this is the proof. Dr. Trina's three rules create a safe, judgment-free space from the very first page — and the workbook is designed to meet you exactly where you are, not where you think you should be.
It's about you. Your relationship with sex. Your mindset. Your pleasure. When you change your relationship with sex, everything else tends to follow — but this workbook keeps the focus entirely on you and what you want.
You. Me. Bed. Now! begins with a simple truth that Dr. Trina has spent twenty years repeating:
You are 100 percent the woman who can confidently ask for what she wants and own her pleasure.
It's time to embrace her.
